Dear Sanae,

Remind him movies are completly fake. If you are watching the movie with him throw things in like 'that guy is such a good actor don't you think'? My sister gets scared too. You could try banning him from scary movies.

Genevieve, 11

Advice Land

Dear Sanae,

tell him to remember that it's all just fantasy and that that person doesn't exist in real life. the actor does but it's only acting! It's ALL fake! if he's freaked out by the actor he should stop watching movies with him in it.

Jo-Liz, 13

Quebec

Dear Sanae,

If your little brother is scared of a fictional character, tell him that the character doesn't exist in real life. Tell him that the character can't come and get him because he is locked up in the screen. If that still scares him explain that the character is just an actor. You should also ban him from watching scary movies. when I was small I would get scared and my parents would tell me this.

Inga, 10

California

Dear Sanae,

You should probably tell him that he shouldn't watch the movie anymore, it's the simplest way to avoid a problem, you should also tell your parents, but don't tell him you did.

Laura, 11

British Columbia

Dear Sanae,

Tell him that it's okay to be afraid, but don't worry because all of it is made up. You could ask him what exactly scares him and then help him to see what is fake and that he's okay. Maybe spend a little extra time with him, because it might make him feel better. Otherwise, ask his permission to tell your parents, bacause they would have good ideas too. You could ask them about some chidhood fear you had and say, "How did you ever help me get over that?". Hope this helps!

Sensei (Sen), 13

Wisconsin

Dear Katy,

I would trz doing all of these things: -show your parents that your responsable enough for a cell -give them good reasons why you need a cell phone (emergencies, always reachable,...) -beg alot and put it on your christmas wishlist -If nothig else works save up all your allowance and birthday money or whatever other money you have and ask permission to buy one yourself (remember you have to pay for calls, text messages, etc.) Show them our worthey of a phone ;)

Jo-Liz, 13

Quebec

Dear Katy,

I have exactly the same problem. I go to a private school, so every one is pretty wealthy and they all have cell phones. My family is not that well off, i only go to that school because my parents wanted me to get a good education. They won't let me get a cell phone either. I DO worry about it, but when people ask me if I have a cell phone I just stand up tall and try to be proud that I don't have one, even if I'm not. I always try and take pride in being different, it might work for you too.

Laura, 11

British Columbia

Dear Katy,

Who cares? It's just a phone! Stop and think about it. Would you use it a lot? Would you be willing to pay for it? Do you have enough? They are very expensive. Maybe you should sit down sometime with your parents with a granola bar or cookies and milk to discuss. Write down the details about whether or not you need to have one. Besides, if you are just getting one because your friends have all gotten one, I don't think that's a very good idea. Maybe your parents are saying you can't get one because you wouldn't use it enough? Ask them about it! Also, they may think you're not mature enough. Just ask them!

Bella, 10

Texas

Dear Katy,

I don't have a cell phone and I'm 13. Besides, what do you really DO with them at ten years old? If there was an emergency you can just use someone else's phone. Personally, with some people, I think cell phones are just like a parent's moniter. I know one boy who's mother calls him constantly to see if he's ok. Sometimes not having a cell phone means you're independant.

Kiera, 13

Massachusetts

Dear Abby,

The next time anything happens look her straight in the eye nd say: top it right now! If you do something like this one more time I'm telling! and then walk aay and don't look a her. Ignore her the next time she tlks to you and if she#s mean gain, tell a teacher or n othe adult ith you friend. 2 people mkes it easier to believe.

Jo-Liz, 13

Quebec

Dear Abby,

You should try tellling a teacher or one of your parents. They probably had problems like yours when they were kids.

Laura, 11

British Columbia

Dear Abby,

You did the right thing. Instead of calling her names back or anything, you ignored her. Keep ignoring her and if she feels like talking about it and asking you why, be reasonable, but strong, and tell her. Don't let her get away with saying that stuff.Hope this helps!

Sensei (Sen), 13

Wisconsin

Dear Isabella,

there is no point in hiding and pretending to be an emotionless brick. If you want real help, you will have to talk to a counselor or teacher about it.

Laura, 11

British Columbia

Dear Sofia,

Sofia, the Twilight series has a very mature topic. I have talked about it to my Mom. I don't really want to read it, but that's because I heard enough about it! I personally think at your age (not trying to sound rude, I am only a year older than you are) you wouldn't really understand it, and therefore, not like it. Your sister is allowed to read it, yes, because she is sixteen. Your Mom is not showing favoritism, at all, if that's what your thinking. She's trying to protect you from reading things that are too old for you. Take a look at all the other 9-year-olds on New Moon. Can you find lots that have read Twilight? Look around your school, too. Did you find more than five? Of course not! Those books are way to old. I know it's a bummer to not be allowed to read something your sister has, but just wait. She wouldn't have been allowed to read it if she was just 9! Enjoy some other books that are your age! My reccomendations are:Percy Jackson, and the Shadow Thieves.

Bella, 10

Texas

Dear Sofia,

Ps. from my earlier message -- someone I have talked to, Jo-Liz, 13, is not allowed to finish Breaking Dawn! You're not alone in not reading them!!! :)'s and

Bella, 10

Texas

Dear Emily,

I'm a vegetarian! I've been one my hole life! I have a cousin that is a vegetarian. She ate meat for a few years, but then ( like you) she deside that she didn't want to eat meat anymore. Her mom and dad still did eat meat though, but she stuck with her desition. I think you should tell your dad that this is what you want to do. I bet he will suport you in the end. Your parents always want whats best for you, but sometimes you know whats best for yourself. So be brave and tell them what you want to do. I wish you lots of luck! Hope this helps!!!!!!

Sanae, 13

Oregon

Dear Madison,

Try just wrighting her a note, just say "Hey, sorry that I was rude the other day, we both said things we shouldn't have and it would meen a lot to me if you would please forgive me." Sign it and send it, tuck it somewhere she'll notice it and who knows? You may have a new friend by the time this is over.

Amara, 12

Alabama

Dear Laura,

why don't you try getting a calendar. if you write what you are going to do each day on the calendar and make sure you stick with it, you should be fine. you could even reward yourself each time you complete what your supposed to complete. Just remember, you can always do more, but never do less.

Laura, 11

British Columbia

Dear Mary,

You could make a list of the pros and cons and conpare them. You could also try going for a year of public school, and if you don't like it, return to homeschooling. That school sounds pretty good, as public schools go. Hope everything works out!

Laura, 12

Maine

Dear Mary,

I think it's a great chance to learn a lot and meet new people. It's your choice, but I think you should go for it!

Cozette, 12

Pennsylvania

Dear Mary,

I was talking with my mom yesterday about how I feel like I'm not working up to my potential in school and there are so many things I'd like to learn that they don't offer, and she had a good idea: community college classes. Community colleges are just what they sound like -for the community, and not only college-age people go there. If you're not sure you want to give up homeschooling but want to learn more, that might be something to look into.

Sara, 13

Massachusetts

Dear Mary,

hi mary.i think you should try school if you don't like it don't go next year. Your freind,

Alexandra, 10

Illinois

Dear Mary,

This is a great chance for you. You will make a lot of good friends and try something new for a change. You may find that you love it.

Annika, 11

Massachusetts

Dear Mary,

I'm homeschooled too! I really like it but sometimes I want to try going to a school. But then when I think about it I don't want to again. If you can choose how long you go and vist the school first then I'd probably go. Of corse the choise is totally yours. I think you should see if you like the school and if you do you could try it. If you don't like the school than just don't go. I wish you well what ever you choose! When you deside could you tell me? I'd really like to know! Good luck!!!! Love,

Sanae, 13

Pennsylvania

Dear Mary,

I think you should make a list of all the special things that you like about home schooling. Then make a list of all the special things that you think you'd like about school. Then make a list of all the special things the two lists have in common. If that last list isn't very long that may be a sign you'll miss home schooling too much. If that last list is nice and long you should give school a shot and see how you like it.

Hannah, 11

Massachusetts

Dear Mary,

I would say do it! Even if it's only for a year or a week! It's so great to meat new friends and be apart of school activities!I'm thinking of going to a different school for fifth grade and that's sorta similar! It's scary on the first day of a new school but after a while you get use to it! If you decide to go you might not wont to stick with one group instead go hang out with every group and THEN decide which group your going to hang out with!!! If you don't go to school think about how it's going to be and how you wont meet new friends!

Isabel, 9

California

Dear Rachel,

why are you afraid to go to school?? If you're afraid of something at school, you should probably tell your parents.

Laura, 11

British Columbia

Dear Rachel,

Think about it. Why are you scared?

Genevieve, 11

WOW

Dear Rachel,

You could talk to your patrents. thats what I'd do. Good luck!

Sanae, 13

Oregon

Dear Rachel,

What is the "because"? I hope you're alright... leave me a sticker telling me how you are.

Alexa, 13

New York

Dear Kendall,

I know, my sister does the same thing. What I do is I have a box which I put my diary in + all my other special things and I hide it in one of my dresser drawers. And then I lock it and hide the key in a box like then I hide the box under my6 bed. So just hide it inj the most weird place that your brother would never expect to find it. Maybe in your dirty clothes hamper?

Macaella, 10

Texas

Dear Kendall,

Maybe hide it in another room. Very tricky! LIke in a closet where your brother will absolutely never look. You could even put it in a gift box with a ribbon on top and if he finds the box say, "Oh that's a present for so-and-so's birthday. Please don't open it because it's already wrapped and I don't want to re-wrap it."

Hannah, 11

Massachusetts

Dear Kendall,

Uhg that sounds terribly anoying, but there is a solution. If he does keep reading your journal, try getting one with a lock and key. I have one of those and it helps me feel more secure about it. If your afraid of him finding the key, than you could put it around your neck or around your wrist. Also, try confronting him about it, and if he says he is,tell him that is not acceptable and he shouldn't be doing that. If none of those work, you could try keeping an online journal where you can secure it with a password where he couldn't get on unless he knew the password. Hope that helps!

Abigail, 12

Kentucky

Dear Cozette,

just because some kids aren't your friend don't give up. find one kid.any one and have a small conversation. You never know what the future holds.she might be your new baest bud.

Isabella, 11

connecticut

Dear Emma1996,

What do you mean by calling your friend "violent"? Has she hurt you in the past? Has she bullied you? Anytime that you're afraid of a friend, get an adult involved *right away*. Tell your parents about this friend, why she scares you, and that she keeps bothering you. Ask your parents to help you; they may be willing to talk to this girl's parents or help you screen your calls so you don't have to talk to her. It's NEVER OK for someone to harass or bully you.

Dear Emma1996,

Does your phone alow you to block calls from a certain number? Do that! Block any number she could call you from, do it on your cell to, if you have one. Be sure to tell you parents about her being *violent*! Try to confront her when there is alot of people around, tell her to Stop Bothering You!

Molly, 12

Alabama

Dear Emma1996,

I've gone through practically the EXACT same thing! My "friend" would harrass me, verbally, emotionally and sometimes even physically. I was also really scared of her, and she was pretty violent, too. It was horrible. Even though telling her to stop would be the first choice in another situation, it sounds like here you really need to get an adult involved. With the help of my mom and my school, we made sure that this girl was not allowed to have any contact with me, inside or outside of school. This might be something you want to do. Don't feel like you're betraying her or like you've done anything wrong -you haven't! No one deserves to be bullied constantly! Good luck!

Sara, 13

Massachusetts

Dear Emma1996,

jut tell her please stop calling me

Rachel, 10

Alabama

Dear Raelyn,

I thnk it's awesome that your sister likes boy stuff! I think you should tell your friend the truth. If she thinks your weird thats not your fault. It's just her apinyun and thats OK. You shouldn't havet to be anyone but yourself around people! Good luck! Love,

Sanae, 13

Oregon

Dear Raelyn,

Try telling your friend that you love your sister's unique personality and that everybody is different. Also tell her, "Don't you think that's kind of mean? You wouldn't want me telling it's weird to like girl stuff it you were a boy, would you?" It's nice of you to defend your sister.

Hannah, 11

Massachusetts

Dear Raelyn,

I think You should tell your friend that just because she thinks it's weird doesn't mean it's weird. Tell her that your sister likes being like that and no one should stop her. Tell her " don't think I'm weird" too. This is Amanda. I hope this helps!!!:)

Amanda/Kiah, 10

California

Dear Raelyn,

Think of it this way: Does stuff have testosterone or "boy parts" or estrogen or "girl parts"? If so, then it is ONE WEIRD TOY.

Pearl, 12

Oregon

Dear Izzy,

Don't worry about it. That happened to me in fifth grade too. All people begin at different times.

Cozette, 12

Pennsylvania

Dear Izzy,

Don't feel embarrased! I was in the same situation as you when I was 10. If you really feel uncomfortable changing in front of your friends, say you have to go to the bathroom, put on a sweater, and stuff the underwear in a sweater pocket. Then change, put the dirty pair in you pocket, and then turn your back to your friends and put your underwear away. And don't worry, they will catch up soon. Your friends are probably jelous that they didn't get pubic hair before you! Hope this helps!

Abigail, 12

Kentucky

Dear Freya,

bring your mp3player or ipod or you could count sheep

Rachel, 10

British Columbia

Dear Freya,

I have the same trouble sometimes. When I can't sleep, I usually close my eyes and focus on my breathing. Try to concentrate on sleeping, and if you still can't sleep, wake up your friend. If you feel scared, ask if she'll stay up with you. If she won't, turn on a light and read a book until you're so tired, you can't stay awake. Hope this helps.

Jenny, 10

Pennsylvania

Dear Sarah,

I think you should talk to your friend. Maybe you could invite her over sometime after school and tell her how you feel. Maybe you could write her a letter and leave it on her desk at school,telling her how you feel. I hope it works out!

Janie, 11

Maryland

Dear Sarah,

I have a friend like that, so I know how you feel. Tell her how you feel when she acts mean or selfish. She may not admit that would she does is mean, but at least you might get her thinking about her actions.I hope this helps!

Finn, 10

Vermont

Dear Sarah,

You should invite her over some time to talk to her. Hope this helps!

Nora, 11

Vermont

Dear Sarah,

Tell her how you feel! Explain to her thoughtfully exactly WHAT she does that makes you sad. It's very possible that she could be insecure about herself. If she can't talk to you about it or makes you feel bad about yourself, and the idea of hanging out with her doesn't sound fun anymore, try to find some new friends. Don't let this girl put you down! Good luck!

Eliana, 13

California

Dear Sarah,

Hi! I have a friend just like that. Just have your friend as a playing friend and don't tell her all of your secrets. Secrets are just for family and really good friends that you can trust. I hope you use and like my advice

Jane, 9

New York

Dear Sarah,

Dear Sarah, This is a tough thing to answer but I would pull her over to the side and talk to her and tell her, "Hey you are a great friend, but sometimes you turn on me, and that's not cool, and I don't want to hang out with you if you are going to treat me this way." I hope everything works out!!

Pittsburgh87, 12

Pennsylvania

Dear Sarah,

SARAH, U need no friend who is nice one day, the next eval!!! U dont deserve someone like that. NO SIR RE!!! Not in my head she does' nt!! Thats not really a friend. Find someone who will b nice to u!!! Not nice, mean, nice, mean, nice, mean, nice ECT!!!!!

Rosie!, 14

Rhode Island

Dear Charlotte,

I'm sorry if this isn't great help, but just talk to your Mom about it. Moms can make help go a very, very long way! I don't think it's a very good idea to talk to your teacher about it. She may be very incredibly Christian and into religious matters a little to far, but you can not stop her from believing what she does. Just ignore her. You might also consider talking to the principal. She or he might want to know about this because after all, it is one of her own employees and may take interest in your matter. She probably would not like knowing that was going on in your classroom!

Amaterasu, 12

Tokyo

Dear Charlotte,

OH, well next time MRS.G ask u and ur friend 2 do stuff 4 her, ask her 2 ask some1 els. And say, u need 2 do ur work. And u should talk her. And u and ur friend, have 2 ask her is she stop asking u 2 2 do stuff 4 her. Only when she needs 2 !!!

Rosie!, 14

Rhode Island

Dear Charlotte,

you shouldn't b afraid 2 talk 2 your teacher. there are many cultures with differnt religons and belifs so it is rude of her 2 only refer 2 one cutlre. you should try and find other people who feel the same as u and tell her what you think together. in a group it might b easier 2 talk 2 her but remember she is still an adult so b respectful but tell her how u feel:) Good Luck!!!!! - Ella

Ella, 12

Ontario

Dear Charlotte,

Well you can tell her how you feel about you having to do all of this work for her and ask for a break.

Yana, 11

Alabama

Dear Paranoid,

I can understand why you're protective of something you worked so hard on. Unfortunately, we're not to do anything on the site right now that guarantees that girls won't share your story. However, you DO keep the copyright to everything you post on New Moon Girls (meaning it doesn't belong to New Moon or anyone else online just because you post it here). Although it's scary to think of someone stealing your story, many people post their writing online all the time, getting lots of fans and building community, and rarely has someone stolen a story online. To be safe, you could post your story for a week or so to get feedback, then take it down and make it "private" in your stuff so it's not up constantly. I hope this helps! Love,

Dear Paranoid,

I don't think any New Moon member would do such a thing. You have your right to not post it. If in the case taht somebody did do that, they would be in trouble with the government. So it's your choice and nobody is limiting you.

Liza, 10

Mississippi